Getting married? Gonna live with your hubby's folks? Unless your tolerance is at my Godly level, i suggest you dont. No matter how much the pros outweighs the cons, aitelyu, it'll just put a strain on your relationship over time. As people grow old, their attitude towards life and the people closest (physically) to them usually goes downhill. They have nothing else to kill time with except to pick on everything that you do or say. If they have daughters, you are nothing compared to them. I only have one treatment for discontented old folks like these. And that's to ignore them entirely. Somehow, it restores my sanity and makes the minutes tick by much more bearable. Really beyond me why some people can live their remaining days on earth surrounded by such misery.